What is the best strategy if my spouse wants a divorce?

I think the first thing you should do is go see an experienced attorney to discuss your options and what’s about to happen. The next thing I would do is make sure you try to secure your assets. I often advise clients to redirect their income into a personal bank account, then they don’t have to worry about those assets being removed from a joint bank account. Becomes important to have funds available as the divorce process begins.